Birthday blow out

So tomorrow is J's birthday. He wanted so desperately for K & J Jr to come to a dinner and cake celelbration tonight. K never bothered to return any of his calls or emails to tell him she couldn't come. J Jr initially said yes, then today he TEXTED him he wasn't feeling well. This kid hasn't been sick in YEARS. I am so hurt and pissed. And I know EXACTLY why- tomorrow is P's day with the G.A.L. and I am sure she pulled the "I am so nervous and I just want to be with you.." bull shit. How do I know? That is just the way she is.

Fucking cow.

Whatever the outcome of this is, I feel good knowing that those ingrates, ahem, I mean Children, were invited to every single function in our lives, and they declined for whatever their reasons are. I hope they remember that. That is all I have to hang on to. I know they are just kids, but JEEZ. They won't cut J a break at any turn, and everything in the world is HIS fault. And I am very aware alot of their reaction is that abandoned child syndrome that they know J won't go anywhere, he is solid, etc. but because P left, they cannot upset her, or she will leave.

I think that may be the best option.
Anyone know anyone with some mafia connections?