Today J & P finally agreed to terms in which she can move the kids down to Florida as soon as the school year is over. That is a matter of days.
Inside, I am rejoicing, wanting to have a huge party and just want to bust out the paint and redo J Jr's room. But, also inside, my heart is breaking for J. Father's day is next weekend.This will be the 1st year ever he isn't with them. I know he is struggling to reconcile this within himself, telling himself he needed to step aside and hope that in the future things can be different. But, he is still their father and I honestly don't know if some of the damage can be fixed. It is so deep, and cuts thru the very soul. I know he is viewing this as yet ANOTHER loss in such a short time. It is hard to convince him it isn't.
And I'm not so sure it isn't the biggest loss yet.
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It's a no-win. I feel for you both...
(((HUGS))) no-win situation is right. I'm sorry and I hope that someday there can be some level of reconciliation for him and his kids.
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