OK- I know I am the adult, they are the children. However, K recently invited me to join a rather popular social website. Fine. Figured what harm, right? So, all is well. There is minimal communication..just playing games, sending her flowers, whatever. No biggie. Then, suddenly this weekend, she disappears from my friends list. So, I email people who are on both of our friends list to ask if she disappeared from theirs. Nope. So, I go into their friends list, and click on her profile, hoping to send a message. Maybe a technical glitch? Who knows. I was informed that she is still on their lists. So, I click on her, and of course, you have to be considered her "friend" to view her profile. So, I send a friend request to K, asking to please elaborate on what I have done/said/thought/did/didn't do to upset her this time.
I know I am just typing to dead air, as she won't reply. The most recent interaction we had was when she showed up in what I would deem by far the most inappropriate outfit I have seen anyone in (unless you work in a red light district, in France, in the 1800's). And found out she went to a school function dressed like that. ALL I SAID WAS "That is quite a get-up!" and I SMILED as I said it. That would be it.
Anyway, just bothering me that no matter what I do or don't do, I just can't get it right and it is always my fault. I AM DONE. Can I legally divorce my step children??
UPDATE:UPDATE:UPDATE:::: J let me know that P stopped by his work today, and said that K told her that I said "she was a bad daughter" thus, my deletion. J actually stood up for me and told her he has been present at EVERY SINGLE conversation I have had with her and never said anything remotely like that and that K IS LYING.
It may not be alot of justice, but at least it is something.
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For the record, I'd never delete you as my friend!
That truly is just a case of immaturity. Plain and simple. Best to just ignore it and don't let it eat you up. It's not worth it.
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